6.15.2009

absence makes my heart grow fonder


I
have a confession to make.

I haven't been feeling the whole blogging thing lately. I'm sure it was pretty apparent...my lack of posts, lack of returning comments, lack of anything and everything.

Long story short, life has been coming at me from all directions and I have been overwhelmed, stressed, and feeling pretty beat up. For the past few weeks I've been trying to tread through the muck one step at a time and it's been really, really difficult. Each day came with different sets of emotions and frankly, it's EXHAUSTING.

So you can see why and how blogging took a back seat. The last thing on my mind was taking photos of my outfits and waxing poetic about the latest trends and recent acquisitions.

I just didn't give a damn.

But apparently some of you did. I can't tell you how touching and heart warming it was to receive some of your emails asking if I was ok and if I needed anything. I've received direct messages on Twitter wondering what's up. Your words of kindness and encouragement really motivated me to bring this blog back into priority status.

And I've missed you. I really have.

Odd how I don't know any of you...I've never met you face to face...and our exchanges involve urls and .coms and electronic machines, both handheld and not. But we're friends, aren't we? In this crazy world called the blogoshpere, we've managed to find our similarities, our common ground, mutual respect, and most surprisingly we've come to care about each other. We've shared birthdays and anniversaries, triumphs and failures, happiness and despair...offering each other cyber hugs and shoulders to cry on. God knows only bloggers understand the plight of other fellow bloggers. And it's this support system that has translated into friendships I never expected and friendships I've come to cherish.

I want to thank all of you, each and every one of you - the ones who have been with me since the beginning, the ones who read this blog w/out commenting, and the ones who have newly discovered my blog - for being such amazing people and for sticking with me. As much as I appreciate your comments and your visits and correspondence, I appreciate your friendships even more. And the day I do close the doors on this site, I'll be happy walking away knowing I have met incredible people and developed friendships I know will grow and last.

And one day, if by chance we do actually meet, I hope we can greet each other with warms hugs.

35 comments:

Carolyn said...

Oh Nina - i love you!! Haha, was that too forward? No but seriously, the thing i love most about you and your blog is that you're not JUST a fashion blog. You are an incredible woman sharing your love for fashion/trends/etc, but also revealing your gorgeous soul via words and pictures. You're letting us "in", and that is why, darling, we adore you. I'm SO thrilled we've connected via the blogosphere, and i am DEF. buying you drinks when i come to L.A.!!

xoxo,
Carolyn

Carolyn said...

p.s. how'd you make your heart nina graphic? i LOVE IT!!

Tiffany said...

hey Nina! I am so so glad to have become friends with you even if it is only through the internets. :) I hope that when I come down to CA I can stop by and make a visit to all my favorite girls, including you!

I feel ya about the blogging break because I've had my moments where I just want to stop. No matter what, we still love you and will always want to know what you are up to.

Hugs to you and hope that the next few weeks will get better for you!

WendyB said...

I hope you're sticking around now that you've had a break. I needed one not long ago...now I feel I need another. Ugh!

Delmy said...

Awww...well I do hope things get better for you! Im sending you a warm hug from New york!

clouds of tulle said...

i hope you feel better soon.
everything always works out in the end. <3

Hannele said...

aaww Nina, loved reading your post, very genuine <3 There will always be times like these but I'm happy you decided to continue forth because I truly enjoy visiting you!

kelly said...

i love you and you are my friend. period.

Karafina said...

yesss.... you'll def get a big hug from me!

i totally have been feeling the same way.. we all get like this im sure...but i do miss your outfit posts! =)

but always, always, take time for yourself.. otherwise you'll end up hating everything and everyone!!

take care chica!

Esteban said...

Refreshing read. Good job.

A little Princess said...

Nina, you're so totally lovely, I've only recently come across your blog and your words and images are so inspiring. I hope things get better xoxo

KB said...

Ah this was such a nice post, I hope you're ok now. Sometimes it's difficult to blog, but don't worry, we're patient and we will wait. Your blog is one of the friendliest and more relateable I feel, when there are so many blogging cliques around. Hope you enjoy your lil break.

JGeb said...

Aw Nina this was so sweet and sincere. So glad to hear that everything is OK and life is just crazy busy. Hope everything calms down soon...

Best wishes :)

Fashionista* said...

lovely post
i'm glad you're back

Sal said...

Oh, lady, I'm so sorry you've hit a rough patch! And I so agree that blog-friendships are really an amazing little blessing ... glad you've felt supported, and sending you cyberhugs until the day I can tackle you with a real-live bear hug. ;)

lisa said...

I hope whatever difficulties you're going through will resolve themselves and your life will once again be blessed with serendipity and grace. :-)

thehighheeltimes said...

First, I hope you'll do absolutely fine really soon, I'm sorry for whatever happened to you.
But I also wanted to tell you that this is the best post I've ever read in the whole blogoshpere so far, especially the second part...wow, there's just so much to think about!
/Dex gives you a hug - I know it's lame but that's all can do right now :)

miamichaela said...

Nina,

I really really hope you're feeling better already...after rain comes sun and all shitty times will eventually change...but for now, I offer you a huge virtual hug! *HUGS* Hang in there, all will be fine :)

this wheel's on fire said...

I'm sorry you've been dealing with all that! To tell you the truth I've been feeling a little down for a while myself. You'll feel better soon enough. Things always get better, don't they? And you are completely right about the strange wonder of these friendships we've built. It's weird that we've never met, but there really are genuine friendships all around. Just remember you have so much love from all of us! xx

Dream Sequins said...

I'm sending you a virtual hug. I know I've only just started reading your blog, but I do enjoy it and enjoy your friendship on Twitter! I know what you mean about feeling a little burnt out. It's nice to go offline for a while, just like it's nice to go on vacation and not work yourself to the bone. Enjoy life. Live a little. Breathe. And then return refreshed and ready to blog again. *hugs* D

Elizabeth Marie said...

Ahh you made me cry! I'm so sorry you've been having such a rough time. I am just so blessed that I found you and Kelly and Aline and, etc...

I feel you about the blogging thing, LIFE sometimes is more important and then it taps you out.

I'm glad you're here. And we'll put a bag on Kellys head and drag her to lunch one day! :)

♥Jozee said...

Aw! I hear ya. I've been crazy busy this past week too but the blog does become an obligation of sorts!

Summer said...

Oh, hope everything will be fine soon.

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imelda said...

Nina dear, i love your blog.. you know that! So keep rockin'!!

Vanessa said...

Well, I hope things start getting much, much more easy for you. Sorry you've hit a rough patch. I'll be looking forward to seeing more updates, but just take your time and do what you gotta do. <3

Anika said...

Yay, glad all is well with you. And you know what, stepping away from the blogosphere does a body good...so figured you needed the time away.

Glad you're doing well though and are back. And the blogosphere can be a lovely place, where friendships abound on trust and common interests.

Awww :)

Gracie said...

You are such a doll. Best to you dear.

Love Grace.

tailorstitch said...

awww i hope you are feeling better :)

Austere said...

I know what you mean, sometimes I just get burnt out on blogging. The best thing is to just take a break and come back refreshed. I hope you come back.

issa said...

awwww how we've missed you!! i hope everything is ok!! and this blogger support system.. is like best thing ever...

Alyssa said...

Hey lady, yes we are friends! I also look forward to a friendship that will grow and last and maybe a hug on the street on day! You're awesome!

kimvee said...

I totally understand where you're coming from. Hope all is well :)

Blicious said...

sending you happy thoughts! i hope everything works out! <3

PrincessImp. said...

Hey N, seems like everyone in the blogosphere goes through periods of ennui every now and then. These things happen and you have to enjoy what you blog about, else it feels like a job. I have struggled somewhat with my lack of regular updates before but I figured there are times when I feel I just don't have that many meaningful things to share, or I am overwhelmed by the other aspects of my life, so I excuse myself for a little while.
Glad to see you back though, and take it easy :)

wreckedstellar said...

I totally agree with what you wrote- even though I haven't been blogging as long as you have I went through the same thing. Glad you are sticking with it and I look forward to reading your blog now that I just found it :)

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